Thursday, December 16, 2010
Out with the bath water
Saturday, December 11, 2010
What is this white stuff?
Monday, December 6, 2010
Hunting for Wabbits
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Monday, November 29, 2010
So Very Thankful
Monday, November 22, 2010
Can you say lice?
Party for the peanut
Monday, November 8, 2010
Buddies
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Turning the Corner
Monday, October 18, 2010
Num, num, num.......
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Less Screaming, More Smiles
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Reflection and Update
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Day 4 - Friday - Ethiopia and the Luxury of the Marriott in DC
Day 3 - Thursday - Ethiopia
Ughhhh, feeling tired and want to come home. The little man slept through the night….again, mama didn’t. As the call to prayer chant began at 5:00 a.m. I rolled over, turned off the lamp and finally fell asleep. Then he woke up. I am sooo tired.
Today we hung around the Guest House until about 11:30 and then made our way to Layla where we again dropped the little guy off for lunch and a nap. Horrible parents. But it is a bit of a necessity since we are not allowed to take the guy out in public. Believe me, it is hard to do, but I quickly see that he is very content there. Our plan today was to make our way over to the Hilton for lunch and to shop and then head up to Churchill Street for some shopping. Todd has a past student who is working in the Peace Corp in Ethiopia and we were lucky enough to spend the afternoon shopping with her. She is normally stationed in a village about 5 hours away from Addis but is working with “Operation Smile” this week translating. Because she is fluent in Amharic she was a huge help negotiating a fair price, as Ferengi (foreigners) are typically charged twice the Ethiopian price. We picked up some really cool stuff…..even a drum for Grayson….her one request. Great afternoon.
Then, my heart broke. We have not been able to talk to Grayson much….it is nearly impossible to make happen. Papa Joe tried calling yesterday but was not able to get through. So, we borrowed the cell phone from Ritmo and paid to have minutes put on and called. It was 7:30 a.m. in Montana and Grayson had just gotten up. When she got on the phone she was sobbing. We asked questions, told her we loved and missed her, but she was unable to talk because she was crying so hard. Then we talked briefly to Papa Joe. Grayson got back on the line after that and had stopped crying and she squeaked out “Mama I love you” and as I began to respond the phone went dead. Great timing. I was near tears when Brigette (the Peace Corp gal) jumped up handed me her cell phone and insisted I call her back. That girl is awesome. So, I called Grayson back and told her I loved and missed her, she talked to her Dada and everyone felt much better. However, my heart is still aching and I cannot wait to cover my little empress in hugs and kisses. I have to remind myself that this place is no place for a sweet little empress.
Water out again today. The lady who runs Layla and owns the Guest House has not had water at her house for 5 whole days. They are used to it….that is Addis. Me, I can take the periodic power outages, but water is essential. Even cold water. I have been able to sneak in one little cold trickle of a shower yesterday, both before and after have been the always lovely baby wipe shower. The first thing I am gonna do after checking into the hotel on Saturday in DC is take a long hot shower. The second thing I am gonna do is bathe my smelly little guy. Hopefully , Todd will follow suit.
Tomorrow morning Layla is having a going away party for the man at 10:00 a.m. and all his little cronies are invited as well as his nannies and the staff. How sweet is that? Then we get Greer’s visa and we are ready to fly. Home so soon, but a living hell getting there. Not looking forward to it. Nope, not at all. Tomorrow night at 10:00 we get on the flight and at 7:00 a.m. Saturday morning we land in DC.
Our time in Ethiopia has been amazing. The people are all sooooo amazingly beautiful. Every last one. They have got to be the most beautiful people in the world. They live such a hard life, which we have been able to experience only a sliver of. I consider myself pretty open to anything, but this place has been really hard on so many levels. I know that had I gotten sleep, eaten properly and stayed hydrated like I should have that perhaps I would have been able to work through the rest. I am glad we don’t live here. I am glad we are going home. I am so thankful for our beautiful son and the opportunities we can provide him. And, I feel changed, like more appreciative of my blessed life. Now that I have seen the way in which they scratch to survive and not just heard it, I believe it is imperative that a change in our world happen. In the very least, all the people of the world deserve water.
Thank you Ethiopia.
We love you baby….we will see you real soon. xoxo Mama, Dada and Baby Greer.
Day 2 - Wednesday - Ethiopia
Greetings. Tough night…but we made it through. Little man woke up in a screaming fit in the middle of the night. Lasted only about 45 minutes, but it was full on screaming. Do you think children from other cultures cry differently?? They most definitely do. When he cries it sounds like “Eye-yi-yi, Eye-yi-yi, Eye-yi-yi.” I thought perhaps he was calling the name of a favorite nanny….but I asked and there is no one at Layla with a name even remotely similar. I asked if it was maybe an Amharic word. Nope not even that. So, we concluded it was the Ethiopian baby cry. The night was over for me and I laid awake contemplating what action I would take in the morning if the water was still off. It has been off twice in the past 24 hours for several hours each time. So when the 5 a.m. call to prayer arrived I had barely drifted off to sleep. Oh…ya, did I mention that there is a mosque somewhere in the vicinity and every morning at 5 a.m. and periodically through the day, there is a very loud “call to prayer” which is basically some muslim dude hollering (chanting, really) for 10 to 15 minutes straight.
At 8:15 we got picked up by the gal who runs Layla and we drove across town to the U.S. Embassy. It was a long, erratic drive, but we drove from one side of Addis to the other and saw some amazing things. Many, many heartbreaking things. Wow, not even sure I can describe the poverty. Our poorest people are kings compared to these people. I saw people living in rubble, not shacks, rubble. I saw people herding goats down sidewalks in the middle of town. I saw a man leading a huge brama bull over a bridge and through traffic. I saw the palace of Haille Selasie, the last king of Ethiopia, a direct decendent of the Queen of Sheba and King Solomon. There was a man peeing on the street and another naked man just propped in the dirt against a filthy wall. Then there is the smell. I can’t describe the smell. Perhaps something like dirt, animals, diesel fuel, and human waste. Horrible. Truly horrible. Then we arrived at the U.S. Embassy. Easy appointment. A couple of questions, an oath, a stamp and then back on the road to the Guest House.
Greer is sick with a bad cold and ear infections. We took him back to Layla and the Dr. there put him on antibiotics. I feel like crap. Something between the ride back and forth across town, lack of food, dehydration and no sleep. We had intended to head over to the Hilton to use their internet and have lunch, but our driver never showed up.
We headed out for dinner tonight with several families staying here who arrived today. We are the only ones here taking our guy home. They are all here for their Court dates. Great people. One couple in our group have over 20 adopted children, many of them special needs. They are adopting again and their new daughter is in a wheel chair. Their 18 month old son, recently adopted from the states has Spina Bifida. They have children from the U.S., China, Vietnam, South Africa, and many, many from Ethiopia. Amazing people.
For now I will sign off, with the hopes of actually posting to the blog soon. Grayson, we miss you more than all the tea in China. Hope you are having a great time with BB and Papa Joe. Love you baby and we will see you very soon. For my folks…hope you are well! I think of you every day and wish we could find an easy way to call. Can’t wait to introduce you to the little man (who is singing songs from his crib and refusing to go to sleep or even lay down). BB and Papa Joe, thank you for taking care of our precious G. We can’t wait to get home and see you.
Good night!! See you all soon.
Day 1 - Tuesday - Ethiopia
Hello from Ethiopia from T, J and G2 –
Flight……grueling. Funny thing is when we did FINALLY land the Ethiopians on the plane broke into applause. Whatever the reason for the applause it was sorta a nice welcome. Truly nightmarish to think we will be boarding the return flight on Friday.
We breezed through customs, got our visas, money and baggage and were out the door in about 20 minutes. Talk about efficiency. We were met at the airport by a driver from our adoption agency. After about 10 minutes in the beat up van I started doubting his intentions. We hadn’t asked for identification and he was quiet as a mouse for the whole drive. When we turned off the main road onto a rocky, pitch black street of sorts and began to weave our way through dozens of shacks I was sure we would soon pull over and he would toss us out into the night and drive away with our luggage and money. Then we arrived at our Guest House. With a double honk the gate opened and there stood two very tall, skinny, smiling from ear to ear Ethiopian men. Our little compound, so to speak, is a walled enclosure, complete with coils of razor wire, surrounding the main Guest House and several little outbuildings (i.e. the kitchen, guard shack). We arrived at our Guest House in a blackout. They have them off and on every day and every other day the power is off from 7 a.m. till 10:00 p.m. There is also times when the water goes off. All government controlled. We have access to a computer and internet, but cannot Skype or load pictures to the blog. It is simply too slow!
So getting to the good stuff….. We were picked up this morning after 9 and driven the short distance to Layla House. We were taken directly to a small room where our little guy and all his little buddies were happily playing. Wouldn’t you know it…..he was the ONLY one who wanted nothing to do with us and cried when we got near him. So we played with the other children who were more than happy to sit on our laps. One toddler bonked her head and immediately ran over to Todd screaming and he scooped her up and she cried on his shoulder. It was really sweet. All the while little man either ignored us or clinged to the leg of his nanny. Finally, we grabbed him, screaming the whole time and found a place to sit and watch the little boys playing soccer. After a while he stopped screaming and things have been good since.
We took him back to the Guest House, took out some bribery snacks and toys and he really began to warm up and relax. After a big Spaghetti lunch full of smiles he fell fast asleep. So sweet. He woke with a huge smile and has been Mr. Love ever since. He is much smaller than his pictures make him look and sooooooooo cute!! None of the pictures do him justice. He is already displaying little tantrums where he flops over on his back and kicks his legs. When you stop paying attention he immediately stops the tantrum. Too funny.
Miss our Empress. Really miss her.
So tired now but excited for our adventure.